Family Intensive Program


Family Intensive Consultation Services

Our signature program involve a uniquely tailored, collaborative,  team approach to consultation and treatment work with your family.

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Somehow when we slow down and get settled together, our treatment team can more readily deepen the therapeutic work needed to see your child, your family, or a seemingly intractable issue in a new light.
 
We work with families formed through biology, in vitro fertilization (IVF), egg or sperm donation, surrogacy, foster care, and adoption and acknowledge that each pathway towards creating a family engenders different losses and roads to connection.
 
Five days of Family Intensive therapeutic work is almost equivalent to 4 months of weekly family therapy sessions. Beyond the accelerated time frame, meeting for extended periods of time has the paradoxical effect of feeling less rushed and can allow for greater space and safety to do deeper work on family members’ trauma and attachment histories, as well as extended moments of delight, joy and playfulness. When we meet, share our morning coffee and tea together, take snack breaks, and welcome family pets and rituals into our meetings.
 

Special note for Adoptive Families:
Mindfully preparing for the arrival of a child with a complicated history into your family or trying to re-establish a sense of “normalcy” and peace after an adoption that has not gone the way you had expected takes a lot of support. We created the Family Intensive Consultation Services because at the heart of our passion for adoptive families is our hope that more adoptive families can stay together, not just physically in the same home, but feel emotionally engaged, supported, and delighted by each other’s company.

The Program

Our exceptional treatment team trained in Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP) aims to support you through the complexities of developmental psychology, trauma, mental health, and learning disabilities, so you can get as many questions answered about your child’s emotional, cognitive, and neurological areas of strengths and difficulties as possible. We feel you have to understand your child in order to feel like a competent parent and weather the storms of clinging and/or rejection so that your child can heal and your family can thrive.

Mind

We will thoroughly review all prior psychological evaluations and assessments and continue to support you and your child to make sense of how their brain, nervous systems, and emotions work.

Connection

We will get curious together on the quality and forms of each family member’s attachment style and how those attachment styles interact with each other.

Body

We will consult with your child’s medical, neurofeedback, and brain spotting providers, as well as their psychiatrists, when relevant, to better understanding how their physical health and development impact their current behaviors, capacity to learn, manage their emotions, and connect with others.

GETTING STARTED

For more information, contact our Intake Coordinator at (212) 337-3565 or by email at hello@rennickeassociates.com

What to Expect

We find that families who engage in our Family Intensive Consultation Services come away from their time with our team with more tangible ideas about the ways that their family can change, a sense of feeling more connected, and with a revitalized sense of hope and that things can get better.

Five days of the Family Intensive therapeutic work is almost equivalent to 4 months of weekly family therapy sessions. Beyond the accelerated time frame, meeting for extended periods of time has the paradoxical effect of feeling less rushed for time and can allow for greater safety to do deeper work on family members’ trauma and attachment histories.

What happens during family intensive treatment?

– Initially, a series of 2-4+ parent(s)-only sessions with two Rennicke & Associates therapists to prepare for the Family Intensive sessions
– Once parents feel comfortable and more confident, the Dyadic (Parent(s)-Child) Family Sessions we typically see families for 3 hour sessions/day, for 5 consecutive days, for 15 hours total of therapeutic work
– Treatment is a combination of parent(s)-only and dyadic parent(s)-child sessions

What might I gain out of a family intensive treatment as a parent?

– Reduction in experience of blocked care/caregiver burnout
– Working, practical understanding of your own attachment history. Increased experiential and emotional awareness of your child’s developmental and attachment history
– Understanding principles of relationally based ways of addressing behavioral/emotional disruptions with your child
– Practicing link between self-care and increased capacity to nurture your child

What might my child gain from their experience in the family intensive program?

– Substantive start on understanding their life’s story/adoption story
– Age appropriate understanding of trauma and emotion regulation/dysregulation
– Identification of triggers due to their story or their neurological make up
– Age appropriate understanding of their fear of getting too close/dependent on parents.

How might my relationship with my child begin to change during this process?

– Experience more prolonged glimmers of enjoyment and delight in your interactions
– Experience “better compliance” with family rules and routines due to reduction in power struggles.

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